Sunday 24 May 2009

Encouragement

I just wanted to update you regarding the lad of 19 from last week who hasn't had a great existence to date and frequently looks at life via the bottom of a bottle.

Mary, Malcolm and George had a good chat with him, and George gave him a Christian tract. Yesterday, George sent me this copy of a text he’d received from the lad. ‘Yea, I’m good mate ive read it takin it to poole with me today you have made me have faith an I cant thank you enough.”

I hoped that you would feel encouraged by this message. I’ve no idea how things will pan out, but I hope you’ll join me in prayer for this chap. God loves him, just as he loves each of us – He loves us enough to have sent His son to die on the cross for our sins.

Much love

JD

Wednesday 20 May 2009

More Ketchup, Please

Photo - Vyne Field Last Monday

Last Night
I had ten minutes' good chatter with a group of lads (14/15yrs) last night. Just Phil and I went out from New Life Church; Nancy, Nick and Richard all needed to be elsewhere.

The two of us arrived at St Peter's Rec; in minutes Phil had organised a game of football while I chatted to the other youngsters who were watching/playing with the Frisbee.

Phil finished playing and was chatting to some girls, whilst I overheard some lads talking about Jesus and arguing whether he was a Jew, or not. I figured that was a signal for me to step their way and we had a good ten minutes' chat, with them denying everything I suggested - but the encouraging thing was that they were thinking about spiritual stuff before I got there - perhaps prompted by Phil's presence and mine?

I said to one lad that the next time I see him I'll try to be better prepared to respond to some of his questions - many of which amounted to the same old stuff, 'Why should I believe in God?' 'I'm not bothered about going to Hell. If I go to Heaven I'll have to follow the rules, so Hell sounds like more fun'. 'Who made God? Nyer! (smug smile)'. 'Wasn't Jesus just mental for getting himself crucified? I felt desperately in need of Holy Spirit Power - a Jesus-style one-liner wouldn't have gone amiss - it's almost impossible to have a sane conversation about stuff that's as serious as life itself when several others are interjecting their thoughts mid-way through your own sentences.

Despite my failure to make a real impression with my infinite wisdom about life, God and the Universe, I take comfort from the fact that they were prepared to listen to my feeble attempts at encouraging their own freedom of thought - so that they might be prompted to question what they're taught/hear about the origins of life, and how the variety of answers they'll hear might be relevant to their own lives if they bother to disect them. If kids are encouraged to THINK and to not take everything on face value, then there will be hope for us all yet - and my biggest prayer is that there will be hope for them!

Moving to earlier in the week
The Vyne continues to be popular with the young. There must have been 30+ kids there again this week and the relationships there are becoming easier and easier as we move forward. Malcolm, Mary and George had a long chat with a young lad who has had a dreadful life - he's 19 and seems permanently drunk, but if you knew half of the things that had gone on in his life then possibly you might understand why/how that is. Meeting with young people like him has been an education for me: it's taught me to try to look at the man behind the bottle.

Last Week
Was our first week where we weren't able to use The Vyne, because another group has pre-booked the premises on a permanent once-monthly basis. But we were were blessed with glorious sunshine, and the boys loved playing football - courtesy of the Knaphill club lending us the goalposts. (See the photo above). It has to be said that Eileen has done a brilliant job organising/liasing/cajolling people into providing for these young people. BUT - it's a lot of work, especially for someone who is busy doing lots of other things for the community as well - MORE HELP IS NEEDED, PLEASE!!!!!




Thursday 7 May 2009

Ketchup

A lot has been happening at OL these past few weeks – all good news.

Our meeting place at The King’s House has moved to The Vyne, where Knaphill Residents’ Association (Eileen) has secured the larger space for a trial 10-week period. Outside Light leaders are supporting this initiative by providing one volunteer each week, while others of us go out onto the field.

I was unwell the first week, but in on Monday and welcomed by ‘the usual suspects’ who were in good spirits – some were watching the tv security monitor, which they said wasn’t “so much Sky as Car Park”. They seemed genuinely happy – not the ‘rabble’ that’s said to cause destruction and despair outside. I suppose there were about 30 or so. Taking turns playing Pool, chatting, playing Jenga and proving themselves to be really pleasant young people.

I chatted to one young lad about the effect they have on adults and older people when they’re outside in large groups. I told him that they can look intimidating. ‘I don’t know why’, he said, ‘we respect our elders’; said without even a hint of irony.

It would be good to be able to put my finger on why there are perceived problems with young people when they’re outside in groups; on the one hand, as individuals, they’re charming – I’ve only met one in Knaphill, so far, who isn’t. On the other hand, in groups when it’s dark outside of houses, they’re often noisy and thoughtless. I must admit, that when I first witnessed their behaviour in those circumstances I wondered if they saw themselves as a part of the wider community – or had they formed their own community, with their own rules? For me, it seemed important that if that was the case, there should be found a way to re-involve them with the wider community, for their sakes’ and ours’.

Maybe there is a tipping point where schisms can occur – but I really don’t think that’s been reached as yet in Knaphill - it's more a minor dislocation. I suspect that a part of the reason for their bad behaviour is that the only facility they had when it’s dark – before Outside Light and Eileen - was the car park and its lights. It’s not rocket science, is it, that when someone’s in a poor environment, they might think it’s ok to act there in a negative fashion. Maybe by finding space for them first at The King’s House, then at The Vyne, that tipping point won’t be reached. It could be essential for our village, therefore, that this work continues.

Funding

And that was the message that I tried to give out again yesterday to Inspector Shanks, who has secured for us £1,000 funding from the Police Property Fund – this is the money made from goods confiscated as the result of criminal activity. We had a good chat about other projects around, such as Street Pastors and Street Angels – Inspector Shanks says there is an initiative to introduce Street Angels into Woking, and she hoped that Outside Light might be interested. Inspector Shanks knows that it’s important for Outside Light to have the freedom to share the Gospel with people, but she still intends to invite us to the first meeting.

Inspector Shanks also wondered whether a Community Fun Day might be worth planning, so that the young people and residents at Alexandra Gardens might get to meet each other and thus reconnect.

Our grateful thanks to Inspector Shanks for her support and affirmation of the work we're doing.

More Funding

A couple of weeks ago we were given another funding gift out of the blue by a charitable trust – which enabled us to buy T-shirts so that we’re now easily able to be identified by the young people we meet. We’re also hoping to build a website so that other churches can more easily catch the vision, and so that we can share our written policies more easily with them if they want to set up an Outside Light team in their own area. One of the advantages of developing a number of Outside Light cells should be that there will be inter-cell support – especially for smaller churches where perhaps there might only be a couple of people who have had the call to work with young people.

Thanks too, to The Ratclif Trust for their generous gift - which was God-timed to happen the day after we were turned down by two other charity funders 'because you share the Gospel' - as if it's wrong to offer people with a gap in their lives, something that's infinitely better and more positive than a bottle of cider!

Tuesdays in Old Woking

Tuesday nights have been a real struggle, it has to be said. At one point there were just two of us available on one of the evenings. Most often there have been three but that’s nowhere near enough to be effective. In Old Woking there is so much opportunity – relationships have already been built to the point that we can go to certain houses, knock on the door and know that we’ll be invited in for a cup of tea and a chat. But we can’t do that, and be out on the field chatting to the kids.

All that said, this last Tuesday we went from Zero to Hero because we were joined by New Life’s youth group and by two people from The Vineyard Church who were sussing us out, and Malcolm from my church. There were enough to make a football team against the local lads, which I believe the church team won – in large part because of Richard (Vineyard) and, of course, the guys from the youth group. George and Phil also played but the less said... :o)

I don't know if there are any other Christians in New Life Church who have a heart for outreach into the local community - perhaps you're nervous, perhaps you think you don't have the time. I'm sure the other Outside Light volunteers would join me in saying that every week we have the same fears anxieties and concerns. None of us has the time, we're all a bit anxious because we don't know what's going to happen - but we all do it nevertheless and there's not been an evening to date when we haven't felt God's presence and blessing. 

This has been a long, hard winter for Outside Light in Old Woking. What we really need for the coming winter is somewhere to get the kids into. We also need to rebuild our volunteer base there. So, my major prayer request this blog is for your prayers for our Old Woking group. Please will you pray for premises and also for more people to volunteer their time. It’s a LOT better doing this stuff than staying in watching TV – with the exception of The Apprentice, of course.

Much Love

JD X